DESHI CUPID — Sets You Up

Serious matchmaking for Bangladeshis
around the world

NOT A GHOTOK. NOT AN APP.

Meet someone who actually fits, picked for you by someone who actually gets you.

I'm ready → See How It Works

🇧🇩 Bangladesh 🇺🇸 USA 🇨🇦 Canada 🇲🇾 Malaysia

800+ people already on the waitlist.

HUMAN-LED MATCHING

VETTED MATCHES

The apps don't work. The parents don't get it. We built something different.

Shaped by and built with the Bangladeshis it's actually for. You told us what was missing — and we built it. Founded by someone from your world, not your parents'. Human-led. Completely private.

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Dating apps were built for dating, not marriage

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Ghotoks who haven't updated their approach since 2003

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Getting judged on things that shouldn't matter

How It Works

For Bangladeshis who are done leaving it to chance.

Tell Us About You

Answer a few questions — no essays, no biodata. Just what actually matters.

We Review & Match

We look at background, values, and what you're actually looking for — not just a photo. No cold intros. We only connect people when there's genuine alignment.

Get Introduced

We never share your answers or profile directly — we write our own introduction summary. When we find a genuine fit, we'll reach out to you through e-mail, Instagram, or Whatsapp. No cold messages, no rushing.

Takes 3 minutes to join. We'll take it from there.

I am a…

Looking for…

Where are you based?

Your halal–haram ratio.

Halal

Haram

Ramadan counts, right?

Fasts every year, genuinely believes. Also goes to parties. Balance.

No public profile · Every intro vetted

Worst case, nothing changes.

Best case? Fuchka date incoming.

Take the chance →

A note from the founder

"I built this because I couldn't find anything built for us — not our parents' ghotoks, not Hinge, not some algorithm that doesn't know what fuchka means. Someone who actually gets it needed to do this."

Nerissa

Founder, Deshi Cupid · Bangladeshi founded

Simple, honest pricing.

You're joining a waitlist. Pay only when we have someone to introduce you to. Details sent via WhatsApp.

Join the Waitlist →

Early stories.

We swear good men exist out there. And we'll find them for you.

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Thank you for not boxing me into a stereotype, not trying to match me with other divorced men, and actually finding me someone who ticks everything I am looking for. Even if this doesn't go anywhere (although I am kinda hopeful), I really really appreciate you.

Anonymous

Early member

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It did take me a bit of courage to actually go ahead and start talking. That said, it's been really easy so far. The conversation has been smooth, comfortable, and actually quite fun — even though it's just been texts and voice notes. Not awkward at all, and he's been a complete gentleman.

Anonymous

Early match

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More stories coming. We're just getting started.

You could be next.

Questions? We've Got You.

Everything you need to know before getting started.

Is my information kept private?+

Completely. We never share your answers directly with anyone. When we make an introduction, we write our own summary based on what we know about you. Your information stays with us.

Do I need to involve my family?+

Not at all — this is entirely between you and us. The process is private by design. Down the line, we may offer a separate pathway for families to register on behalf of someone, but right now this is a direct service for people who want to handle their own search on their own terms.

What makes this different from Shaadi or BharatMatrimony?+

Those platforms let anyone browse your information and message you cold. Deshi Cupid is human-led. We do the searching for you, everything stays completely private, and every match is vetted before any introduction is made. We were built specifically for Bangladeshis, not bolted onto a generic South Asian template.

I'm not very religious — is this for me?+

Yes. We work with the full spectrum. From practicing Muslims to people who are culturally Bangladeshi but don't follow every rule. Just be honest about where you're at and we'll find someone whose values and lifestyle genuinely align. We don't judge, and neither should your match.

What happens after I'm introduced to a match?+

After an introduction is made via WhatsApp, you decide whether to move forward. There's no pressure and no timeline. Not the right fit? Let's match you again.